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+Network Working Group D. Eastlake 3rd
+Request for Comments: 4144 Motorola Laboratories
+Category: Informational September 2005
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+ How to Gain Prominence and Influence in Standards Organizations
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+Status of This Memo
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+ This memo provides information for the Internet community. It does
+ not specify an Internet standard of any kind. Distribution of this
+ memo is unlimited.
+
+Copyright Notice
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+ Copyright (C) The Internet Society (2005).
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+IESG Note:
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+ This RFC is not a candidate for any level of Internet Standard. The
+ IETF disclaims any knowledge of the fitness of this RFC for any
+ purpose and notes that the decision to publish is not based on IETF
+ review apart from IESG review for conflict with IETF work. The RFC
+ Editor has chosen to publish this document at its discretion. See
+ RFC 3932 for more information.
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+Abstract
+
+ This document provides simple guidelines that can make it easier for
+ you to gain prominence and influence in most standards organizations.
+
+Table of Contents
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+ 1. Introduction ....................................................2
+ 2. Human Organizations .............................................2
+ 3. Eighty Percent of Success is Showing Up .........................2
+ 4. Sit Up Front ....................................................3
+ 5. Break Bread .....................................................3
+ 6. Develop Friends and Mentors .....................................4
+ 7. Be Helpful ......................................................4
+ 8. Learn The Traditions and Rules ..................................5
+ 9. Acronyms and Special Terms ......................................5
+ 10. Pick Your Points ...............................................6
+ 11. Technical and Communications Skill .............................7
+ 12. Do Not Try Too Hard ............................................7
+ 13. Security Considerations ........................................7
+ 14. Informative References .........................................8
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+1. Introduction
+
+ This document contains simple guidelines that can help you to gain
+ prominence and influence in most standards, and many other human,
+ organizations. It takes only normal communications and technical
+ skills and moderate effort to follow these guidelines.
+
+2. Human Organizations
+
+ All organizations composed of human beings give the appearance to
+ newcomers of having an inner clique that runs things. This happens
+ whether there is a semi-permanent cohesive inside group that actually
+ tries to keep all power in its own hands or those in positions of
+ power are genuinely trying to be open and willing to share and there
+ is a system for their regular replacement. It is just the nature of
+ human society. It always takes time and effort to get to know new
+ people. [Carnegie]
+
+ All organizations have procedures. It always takes time and effort
+ to learn how things are done in an organization. In an organization
+ of any size, those who happen to be in positions of authority can't
+ spend equal time talking with everyone about every issue in the
+ organization. Their positions mean they will necessarily be in many
+ conversations with each other and fewer conversations with the
+ average member. And there are some types of information that should
+ normally be kept confidential, at least until verified, and sometimes
+ even then. Examples are charges of ethical or other violations
+ against individuals.
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+ But, despite all this, following some simple guidelines can greatly
+ accelerate the rate at which you will become favorably known in an
+ organization. Favorable prominence can increase your chance of being
+ selected for positions such as editorship of documents, secretary or
+ clerk of a group (so you get to produce the record of what *actually*
+ happened), or possibly even some level of chair or deputy chair
+ position.
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+3. Eighty Percent of Success is Showing Up
+
+ It is the simplest thing! If you are absent, how can you have much
+ prominence or influence?
+
+ This applies to all venues, email/messaging, telephone/video
+ conference, and especially in-person or face-to-face meetings. You
+ do not need 100% attendance, but your absences should be rare. If
+ possible, only miss less important events.
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+ Attendance is obviously most important at meetings of the specific
+ body in which you are interested. But you should also watch for
+ higher-level or lower-level meetings that are open. Many standards
+ groups have a multi-level structure. As well as attending the group
+ you are interested in, if there are open meetings of various group
+ chairs or the like, attending those can be a fast track, even if you
+ only get to observe and be noticed. And if there are sub-groups of
+ the group you are most interested in, consider attending them also to
+ become better known more quickly. These meetings may be before the
+ beginning or after the end of the regular member meetings, so, if you
+ are really serious, you should be prepared to arrive early and leave
+ late.
+
+4. Sit Up Front
+
+ If a meeting is very small, say less than 20 people, it does not make
+ much difference. But for meetings of any size, especially when
+ starting with an organization, sit up front. Do not be afraid of the
+ first row even if it is empty, although the second and sometimes even
+ the third are not too bad. Show up early if you need to, but this is
+ usually not necessary, as most people are extraordinarily reluctant
+ to put themselves in an exposed place like the front row.
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+ After you have some experience, you may decide to sit with some group
+ that sits together. But, in larger meetings, the prominent people
+ generally sit either near the front, or way at the back. (Being in
+ the back, at least in large rooms, may mean you can wander around and
+ talk to people without disrupting things.)
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+5. Break Bread
+
+ All meetings of any length include refreshment and meals. Otherwise
+ the attendees would starve.
+
+ If there is a group catered meal, try sitting with different groups
+ or factions to get an idea of the different viewpoints in the
+ organization. Or try to sit at a table and eat with people who have
+ some seniority and experience in the organization, if they seem
+ receptive.
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+ Usually, for multi-day meetings, there is at least one big social
+ event where the attendees can get together. From small meetings
+ (attendance under 100) and medium size (attendance under 500 or so)
+ meetings, it is common for people to go to the social event.
+ Typically some alcohol is available, people are more relaxed and
+ informal. These are good events at which to approach high-level
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+ officials to exchange a pleasant word or two, or even make a small
+ request. But do not expect to engage in detailed technical
+ discussions, although this sometimes happens.
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+ Social events are commonly at noisy locations. Sometimes, as
+ organizations get larger, social events get so large and congested
+ that many of the most prominent people schedule informal meetings
+ opposite them. You will have to see how it works in your
+ organization.
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+ But there will also be plenty of informal lunch, dinner, and maybe
+ breakfast groups (unless they are all catered) and other get-
+ togethers. At some standards meetings, you can more or less invite
+ yourself along to such meal groups, unless they are a small
+ confidential group or a group of employees of a particular company,
+ or the like. Usually people will warn you if the group plans to
+ spend much of the meal discussing some particular issue, and you can
+ then decide if you want to go with them.
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+6. Develop Friends and Mentors
+
+ It is hard to get things done and learn what is going on entirely by
+ yourself. If you can, find a few people with more experience that
+ you can go to with questions.
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+ Introduce yourself to people and be friendly. But do not necessarily
+ link up with the first people you meet. You want people who are
+ knowledgeable and well-regarded within the organization.
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+ If you follow the advice in section 7 below, you should have plenty
+ of opportunity to meet experienced people in an organization.
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+7. Be Helpful
+
+ Within reason, volunteer to do some of the drudgery for which you are
+ competent, such as taking notes during meetings, helping someone else
+ draft a proposal, or volunteering to re-write part of a draft for
+ clarity and consistency.
+
+ This sort of thing will get you noticed and put some people in your
+ debt, at least in a minor way. But be careful not to volunteer for
+ more than you can actually do. Failing to follow through will damage
+ your reputation. If you do get over committed, seek help as soon as
+ you realize it. The worst thing is to fail to meet your promises and
+ not let anyone know about it until it is too late for them to
+ recover.
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+8. Learn The Traditions and Rules
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+ It is quite important to know the traditions of an organization, how
+ things get done, what rules are ignored, how rules are interpreted,
+ and what rules are rigorously enforced.
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+ While traditions are more important, it cannot hurt to also know the
+ official rules and procedures. The probability that low level groups
+ in the organization actually operate according to the officially
+ adopted rules and procedures in detail is quite low, unless the
+ organization has very informal rules.
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+ Do not object to procedure just for the sake of objecting. If you
+ repeatedly invoke little known and rarely used official rules in
+ small matters, it is a sure way to make people assume that what you
+ have to say is silly or obstructionist, until proven otherwise. If
+ you invoke the official rules so as to override tradition in an
+ important matter, be aware that you are playing with a weapon of mass
+ destruction. You may or may not accomplish your immediate goal, but
+ the blowback will almost certainly damage your future efforts in that
+ organization.
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+ While it is always the path of least resistance to follow tradition,
+ knowing the official rules makes you aware of when they could be
+ invoked against you. This may enable you to adopt a path that is
+ reasonably congruent with both the traditions and the rules,
+ maximizing your chances of success.
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+9. Acronyms and Special Terms
+
+ Essentially all technical efforts wallow in acronyms and special
+ "terms of art". It sometimes seems as if no effort or sub-effort is
+ really rolling until it has come up with several non-obvious terms to
+ confuse those who have not been involved for a while. Nor are
+ acronyms constant. Especially in the early part of a standards
+ effort, when ideas are flopping around, acronyms and special terms
+ frequently change, causing further confusion of those not in the most
+ active part of the group.
+
+ In fact, if you read an explanation of some deep technical matter
+ written so anyone can understand it, you can be virtually certain
+ that it is not how experts in the field communicate with each other,
+ verbally or in writing. This is true of all fields. Read something
+ about engineering big "air vents" and "water pipes"? Experts use
+ "plenum" and "penstock".
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+ It's a bad strategy to get lost in acronyms you do not know, so you
+ cannot understand what people are talking about and may make a fool
+ of yourself if you guess wrong. The best thing is to find out the
+ meaning of and learn the acronyms in advance. Failing that, ask
+ about acronyms or strange terms as soon as you can, preferably the
+ first time you encounter them. Making a written note of their
+ meaning could not hurt. Usually there will be others who also wanted
+ to ask but were afraid to and will be grateful that you took the
+ initiative.
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+10. Pick Your Points
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+ Think a bit about the impression you make on people.
+
+ If you insist on speaking to every issue, even if you don't have any
+ really strong points, you will get a reputation as a blowhard who
+ doesn't add much and just slows things down. If you only speak
+ occasionally, but have solid points to make when you do, people will
+ pay much more attention to your occasional speeches.
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+ Similarly, if you quibble about everything, you will use up good will
+ you have acquired and may be viewed as an obstructionist who causes
+ needless delay. If an organization is doing or developing something
+ complex, all the decisions are not going to go the way you want.
+ Consider the points where you could try to get your way, figure out
+ how important they are to you, how strong your arguments would be,
+ and how much opposition you are likely to encounter. Keep in mind
+ that your arguments will usually seem more impressive to you than
+ they do to others. Based on this, you can make a reasoned choice of
+ where to really put up a fight and possibly recruit allies or call in
+ favors.
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+ This is not to say that you should ignore minor issues and never
+ speak up about them if you have new information or opinions to
+ contribute. Just do not invest a lot of effort in fighting an issue
+ or making a point unless it is important to you and you judge that
+ you have a reasonable chance of succeeding.
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+11. Technical and Communications Skill
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+ You may be surprised that I have said very little about technical and
+ communication skills, although in the Introduction above it was
+ assumed that you had normal skills in these areas. You do need to
+ understand the technical aspects of what is going on so that you
+ cannot be easily bamboozled.
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+ If you are very strong technically and can make substantial
+ contributions, you can be helpful, if you can contribute in a way
+ that does not offend too many people. But, especially in a large
+ technical standards body, not everyone can be a strong technical
+ contributor.
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+ If you have strong verbal and written communications skills, this can
+ also be helpful. But if you are not fluent in the dominant language
+ of the organization, you will be at a disadvantage. While the
+ organization should make some attempt to be approachable by those for
+ whom its dominant language is a second language, the best thing to do
+ is to put in the time and effort to become fluent. [Farber] As a
+ stopgap, you can team up with someone with whom you communicate well
+ and who is fluent in the standards organization language. They can
+ speak for you in meetings, if necessary, and co-author written
+ contributions with you.
+
+ If you are the rare genius with superb technical, communication, and
+ interpersonal skills, you are wasting your time reading this and
+ might be able to get away with doing exactly the opposite of some of
+ its recommendations. But I would not count on it.
+
+12. Do Not Try Too Hard
+
+ Lastly, give yourself a bit of time to get settled into an
+ organization. Then, be reasonably assertive, but do not be too pushy
+ unless an issue is so important you are willing to risk the
+ reputation you have built up. And try to never lose your temper.
+
+ Unless you are a genius at inter-personal relations, you will not
+ gain substantial prominence and influence in a standards organization
+ overnight. These things take time and patience.
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+13. Security Considerations
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+ This RFC raises no new security issues.
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+14. Informative References
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+ [Carnegie] "How To Win Friends And Influence People", Dale Carnegie,
+ 1990, ISBN 0671723650.
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+ [Farber] "How to Learn Any Language", Barry Farber, 1991, ISBN
+ 1-56731-543-7.
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+Author's Address
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+ Donald E. Eastlake 3rd
+ Motorola Laboratories
+ 155 Beaver Street
+ Milford, MA 01757 USA
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+ Phone: +1 508-786-7554 (w)
+ EMail: Donald.Eastlake@motorola.com
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