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diff --git a/doc/rfc/rfc4144.txt b/doc/rfc/rfc4144.txt new file mode 100644 index 0000000..f26e301 --- /dev/null +++ b/doc/rfc/rfc4144.txt @@ -0,0 +1,507 @@ + + + + + + +Network Working Group D. Eastlake 3rd +Request for Comments: 4144 Motorola Laboratories +Category: Informational September 2005 + + + How to Gain Prominence and Influence in Standards Organizations + +Status of This Memo + + This memo provides information for the Internet community. It does + not specify an Internet standard of any kind. Distribution of this + memo is unlimited. + +Copyright Notice + + Copyright (C) The Internet Society (2005). + +IESG Note: + + This RFC is not a candidate for any level of Internet Standard. The + IETF disclaims any knowledge of the fitness of this RFC for any + purpose and notes that the decision to publish is not based on IETF + review apart from IESG review for conflict with IETF work. The RFC + Editor has chosen to publish this document at its discretion. See + RFC 3932 for more information. + +Abstract + + This document provides simple guidelines that can make it easier for + you to gain prominence and influence in most standards organizations. + +Table of Contents + + 1. Introduction ....................................................2 + 2. Human Organizations .............................................2 + 3. Eighty Percent of Success is Showing Up .........................2 + 4. Sit Up Front ....................................................3 + 5. Break Bread .....................................................3 + 6. Develop Friends and Mentors .....................................4 + 7. Be Helpful ......................................................4 + 8. Learn The Traditions and Rules ..................................5 + 9. Acronyms and Special Terms ......................................5 + 10. Pick Your Points ...............................................6 + 11. Technical and Communications Skill .............................7 + 12. Do Not Try Too Hard ............................................7 + 13. Security Considerations ........................................7 + 14. Informative References .........................................8 + + + + +Eastlake Informational [Page 1] + +RFC 4144 Prominence and Influence September 2005 + + +1. Introduction + + This document contains simple guidelines that can help you to gain + prominence and influence in most standards, and many other human, + organizations. It takes only normal communications and technical + skills and moderate effort to follow these guidelines. + +2. Human Organizations + + All organizations composed of human beings give the appearance to + newcomers of having an inner clique that runs things. This happens + whether there is a semi-permanent cohesive inside group that actually + tries to keep all power in its own hands or those in positions of + power are genuinely trying to be open and willing to share and there + is a system for their regular replacement. It is just the nature of + human society. It always takes time and effort to get to know new + people. [Carnegie] + + All organizations have procedures. It always takes time and effort + to learn how things are done in an organization. In an organization + of any size, those who happen to be in positions of authority can't + spend equal time talking with everyone about every issue in the + organization. Their positions mean they will necessarily be in many + conversations with each other and fewer conversations with the + average member. And there are some types of information that should + normally be kept confidential, at least until verified, and sometimes + even then. Examples are charges of ethical or other violations + against individuals. + + But, despite all this, following some simple guidelines can greatly + accelerate the rate at which you will become favorably known in an + organization. Favorable prominence can increase your chance of being + selected for positions such as editorship of documents, secretary or + clerk of a group (so you get to produce the record of what *actually* + happened), or possibly even some level of chair or deputy chair + position. + +3. Eighty Percent of Success is Showing Up + + It is the simplest thing! If you are absent, how can you have much + prominence or influence? + + This applies to all venues, email/messaging, telephone/video + conference, and especially in-person or face-to-face meetings. You + do not need 100% attendance, but your absences should be rare. If + possible, only miss less important events. + + + + + +Eastlake Informational [Page 2] + +RFC 4144 Prominence and Influence September 2005 + + + Attendance is obviously most important at meetings of the specific + body in which you are interested. But you should also watch for + higher-level or lower-level meetings that are open. Many standards + groups have a multi-level structure. As well as attending the group + you are interested in, if there are open meetings of various group + chairs or the like, attending those can be a fast track, even if you + only get to observe and be noticed. And if there are sub-groups of + the group you are most interested in, consider attending them also to + become better known more quickly. These meetings may be before the + beginning or after the end of the regular member meetings, so, if you + are really serious, you should be prepared to arrive early and leave + late. + +4. Sit Up Front + + If a meeting is very small, say less than 20 people, it does not make + much difference. But for meetings of any size, especially when + starting with an organization, sit up front. Do not be afraid of the + first row even if it is empty, although the second and sometimes even + the third are not too bad. Show up early if you need to, but this is + usually not necessary, as most people are extraordinarily reluctant + to put themselves in an exposed place like the front row. + + After you have some experience, you may decide to sit with some group + that sits together. But, in larger meetings, the prominent people + generally sit either near the front, or way at the back. (Being in + the back, at least in large rooms, may mean you can wander around and + talk to people without disrupting things.) + +5. Break Bread + + All meetings of any length include refreshment and meals. Otherwise + the attendees would starve. + + If there is a group catered meal, try sitting with different groups + or factions to get an idea of the different viewpoints in the + organization. Or try to sit at a table and eat with people who have + some seniority and experience in the organization, if they seem + receptive. + + Usually, for multi-day meetings, there is at least one big social + event where the attendees can get together. From small meetings + (attendance under 100) and medium size (attendance under 500 or so) + meetings, it is common for people to go to the social event. + Typically some alcohol is available, people are more relaxed and + informal. These are good events at which to approach high-level + + + + + +Eastlake Informational [Page 3] + +RFC 4144 Prominence and Influence September 2005 + + + officials to exchange a pleasant word or two, or even make a small + request. But do not expect to engage in detailed technical + discussions, although this sometimes happens. + + Social events are commonly at noisy locations. Sometimes, as + organizations get larger, social events get so large and congested + that many of the most prominent people schedule informal meetings + opposite them. You will have to see how it works in your + organization. + + But there will also be plenty of informal lunch, dinner, and maybe + breakfast groups (unless they are all catered) and other get- + togethers. At some standards meetings, you can more or less invite + yourself along to such meal groups, unless they are a small + confidential group or a group of employees of a particular company, + or the like. Usually people will warn you if the group plans to + spend much of the meal discussing some particular issue, and you can + then decide if you want to go with them. + +6. Develop Friends and Mentors + + It is hard to get things done and learn what is going on entirely by + yourself. If you can, find a few people with more experience that + you can go to with questions. + + Introduce yourself to people and be friendly. But do not necessarily + link up with the first people you meet. You want people who are + knowledgeable and well-regarded within the organization. + + If you follow the advice in section 7 below, you should have plenty + of opportunity to meet experienced people in an organization. + +7. Be Helpful + + Within reason, volunteer to do some of the drudgery for which you are + competent, such as taking notes during meetings, helping someone else + draft a proposal, or volunteering to re-write part of a draft for + clarity and consistency. + + This sort of thing will get you noticed and put some people in your + debt, at least in a minor way. But be careful not to volunteer for + more than you can actually do. Failing to follow through will damage + your reputation. If you do get over committed, seek help as soon as + you realize it. The worst thing is to fail to meet your promises and + not let anyone know about it until it is too late for them to + recover. + + + + + +Eastlake Informational [Page 4] + +RFC 4144 Prominence and Influence September 2005 + + +8. Learn The Traditions and Rules + + It is quite important to know the traditions of an organization, how + things get done, what rules are ignored, how rules are interpreted, + and what rules are rigorously enforced. + + While traditions are more important, it cannot hurt to also know the + official rules and procedures. The probability that low level groups + in the organization actually operate according to the officially + adopted rules and procedures in detail is quite low, unless the + organization has very informal rules. + + Do not object to procedure just for the sake of objecting. If you + repeatedly invoke little known and rarely used official rules in + small matters, it is a sure way to make people assume that what you + have to say is silly or obstructionist, until proven otherwise. If + you invoke the official rules so as to override tradition in an + important matter, be aware that you are playing with a weapon of mass + destruction. You may or may not accomplish your immediate goal, but + the blowback will almost certainly damage your future efforts in that + organization. + + While it is always the path of least resistance to follow tradition, + knowing the official rules makes you aware of when they could be + invoked against you. This may enable you to adopt a path that is + reasonably congruent with both the traditions and the rules, + maximizing your chances of success. + +9. Acronyms and Special Terms + + Essentially all technical efforts wallow in acronyms and special + "terms of art". It sometimes seems as if no effort or sub-effort is + really rolling until it has come up with several non-obvious terms to + confuse those who have not been involved for a while. Nor are + acronyms constant. Especially in the early part of a standards + effort, when ideas are flopping around, acronyms and special terms + frequently change, causing further confusion of those not in the most + active part of the group. + + In fact, if you read an explanation of some deep technical matter + written so anyone can understand it, you can be virtually certain + that it is not how experts in the field communicate with each other, + verbally or in writing. This is true of all fields. Read something + about engineering big "air vents" and "water pipes"? Experts use + "plenum" and "penstock". + + + + + + +Eastlake Informational [Page 5] + +RFC 4144 Prominence and Influence September 2005 + + + It's a bad strategy to get lost in acronyms you do not know, so you + cannot understand what people are talking about and may make a fool + of yourself if you guess wrong. The best thing is to find out the + meaning of and learn the acronyms in advance. Failing that, ask + about acronyms or strange terms as soon as you can, preferably the + first time you encounter them. Making a written note of their + meaning could not hurt. Usually there will be others who also wanted + to ask but were afraid to and will be grateful that you took the + initiative. + +10. Pick Your Points + + Think a bit about the impression you make on people. + + If you insist on speaking to every issue, even if you don't have any + really strong points, you will get a reputation as a blowhard who + doesn't add much and just slows things down. If you only speak + occasionally, but have solid points to make when you do, people will + pay much more attention to your occasional speeches. + + Similarly, if you quibble about everything, you will use up good will + you have acquired and may be viewed as an obstructionist who causes + needless delay. If an organization is doing or developing something + complex, all the decisions are not going to go the way you want. + Consider the points where you could try to get your way, figure out + how important they are to you, how strong your arguments would be, + and how much opposition you are likely to encounter. Keep in mind + that your arguments will usually seem more impressive to you than + they do to others. Based on this, you can make a reasoned choice of + where to really put up a fight and possibly recruit allies or call in + favors. + + This is not to say that you should ignore minor issues and never + speak up about them if you have new information or opinions to + contribute. Just do not invest a lot of effort in fighting an issue + or making a point unless it is important to you and you judge that + you have a reasonable chance of succeeding. + + + + + + + + + + + + + + +Eastlake Informational [Page 6] + +RFC 4144 Prominence and Influence September 2005 + + +11. Technical and Communications Skill + + You may be surprised that I have said very little about technical and + communication skills, although in the Introduction above it was + assumed that you had normal skills in these areas. You do need to + understand the technical aspects of what is going on so that you + cannot be easily bamboozled. + + If you are very strong technically and can make substantial + contributions, you can be helpful, if you can contribute in a way + that does not offend too many people. But, especially in a large + technical standards body, not everyone can be a strong technical + contributor. + + If you have strong verbal and written communications skills, this can + also be helpful. But if you are not fluent in the dominant language + of the organization, you will be at a disadvantage. While the + organization should make some attempt to be approachable by those for + whom its dominant language is a second language, the best thing to do + is to put in the time and effort to become fluent. [Farber] As a + stopgap, you can team up with someone with whom you communicate well + and who is fluent in the standards organization language. They can + speak for you in meetings, if necessary, and co-author written + contributions with you. + + If you are the rare genius with superb technical, communication, and + interpersonal skills, you are wasting your time reading this and + might be able to get away with doing exactly the opposite of some of + its recommendations. But I would not count on it. + +12. Do Not Try Too Hard + + Lastly, give yourself a bit of time to get settled into an + organization. Then, be reasonably assertive, but do not be too pushy + unless an issue is so important you are willing to risk the + reputation you have built up. And try to never lose your temper. + + Unless you are a genius at inter-personal relations, you will not + gain substantial prominence and influence in a standards organization + overnight. These things take time and patience. + +13. Security Considerations + + This RFC raises no new security issues. + + + + + + + +Eastlake Informational [Page 7] + +RFC 4144 Prominence and Influence September 2005 + + +14. Informative References + + [Carnegie] "How To Win Friends And Influence People", Dale Carnegie, + 1990, ISBN 0671723650. + + [Farber] "How to Learn Any Language", Barry Farber, 1991, ISBN + 1-56731-543-7. + +Author's Address + + Donald E. Eastlake 3rd + Motorola Laboratories + 155 Beaver Street + Milford, MA 01757 USA + + Phone: +1 508-786-7554 (w) + EMail: Donald.Eastlake@motorola.com + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + +Eastlake Informational [Page 8] + +RFC 4144 Prominence and Influence September 2005 + + +Full Copyright Statement + + Copyright (C) The Internet Society (2005). + + This document is subject to the rights, licenses and restrictions + contained in BCP 78, and except as set forth therein, the authors + retain all their rights. + + This document and the information contained herein are provided on an + "AS IS" basis and THE CONTRIBUTOR, THE ORGANIZATION HE/SHE REPRESENTS + OR IS SPONSORED BY (IF ANY), THE INTERNET SOCIETY AND THE INTERNET + ENGINEERING TASK FORCE DISCLAIM ALL WARRANTIES, EXPRESS OR IMPLIED, + INCLUDING BUT NOT LIMITED TO ANY WARRANTY THAT THE USE OF THE + INFORMATION HEREIN WILL NOT INFRINGE ANY RIGHTS OR ANY IMPLIED + WARRANTIES OF MERCHANTABILITY OR FITNESS FOR A PARTICULAR PURPOSE. + +Intellectual Property + + The IETF takes no position regarding the validity or scope of any + Intellectual Property Rights or other rights that might be claimed to + pertain to the implementation or use of the technology described in + this document or the extent to which any license under such rights + might or might not be available; nor does it represent that it has + made any independent effort to identify any such rights. 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